Police Confirm ex-Football Star's Death: Girlfriend Shot Him, Then Herself

Police confirm that Football great, Steve McNair's 20 year old girlfriend Saheel Kazemi, shot him before killing herself.

Reports state that things which had seemed to be going well for Kazemi, quickly went downhill. Growing debts due to a leaving roomate and car payments among the list. Compounding matters was the fact that she saw signs that McNair was having another relationship. According to Tennesean.com, Kazemi had become very distraught, and told friends and that her life was all messed up and she "was going to end it all"

What a tragic, end for both. She certainly could have and probably should have ended it all...in a less gory manner. Turn the cars back to bank through which she had the loan, and get a quick sale her home. Or, she could have foreclosed her home like the rest of America, and she would have had a fresh start.

What I want to know is how could a girlfriend have seen signs of one's gigolo habits, but a wife couldn't?? If nothing else this story teaches us all as women, that we should not feel to comfortable in our living situations, such that we are unaware of whats going on in our husbands lives. Yes, trust your husbands. But be mindful of his affairs business and personal. It's okay to question your significant other about an unrecognizable number, you may have seen on your caller id. Communication is key, and as women we need to stand up and become more involved in our mate's everyday lives, and just show some interest. Otherwwise, who knows. The same affairs that you have been evading may someday be your very own.